Strength

A Scorpio woman can be greatly underestimated.  She is strong and can be straightforward at times, but usually has no courage to really let this shine.  Her heart acts as her guide and when she follows it she can be overwhelming in her presence.  This makes her a rather confusing creature as you never know if she will be bold or reserved.

Must Have

Since a Scorpio woman is very sexual you must have a perfect sexual compatibility.  You need to make sure that you have that spark or things will never work.  She will not deal well if she cannot express her sexual desires and needs.  You should be open to her lead and let her set the pace in the bedroom.

Emotional

She also has an emotional side that need attention.  She wants to be loved and to find someone to look after her.  She needs respect in every aspect.  You should understand that she knows who she is and what she wants.  If you are not it then she will let you know.  On the other hand, if you are what she wants then she will turn up the heat.

Holding onto a Scorpio woman is about revealing her layers.  She is hot at the core, but with a vulnerability and neediness on the outside.  You have to be able to serve all her needs without being too overbearing.  She needs understanding and she wants you to not just look at her as a sexual being.  She yearns for that deeper connection.

In Control?

The Scorpio man gives off a real good vibe that he is in control.  He has a hypnotic nature that makes you feel he is strong, but on the inside he is not in control at all.  He is smart and very intuitive, but he is always in competition with himself.  He tries to be bigger and better at every chance, but it is not for material gain.  It is all about beating himself.  Often this self competition can be his downfall.

Deeply Sensitive

The Scorpio man is very deeply emotional.  He bears a wound on his soul that holds him down and makes him vulnerable.  Contrary to the strong exterior, at heart he is weak.  He is super sensitive so you must watch your words and how you act with him.  He won’t do well with games because he takes everything to heart.

He is hurt easily.  He feels a deep sense of loneliness and the inability to fully trust.  He is sentimental to a fault.  He tends to be careful.  You just have to go with it.  You can’t push or you may make him break.

Passionate

He loves passion and longs for sins of the flesh.  He can push aside emotions to be the perfect lover.  However, for something long lasting you must combine passion with emotions and that may take work.

To capture his heart you have to be intuitive.  You have to make him work and take him to new plains of existence.  You also need to understand what is going on inside him and be strong enough to handle it.

Good Sign Matches

Cancer is a good choice for you.  A cancer longs protecting and you will love being that protector.  Cancer is possessive enough to make you feel secure.  You will have equal admiration and the connection will be strong.  Cancer’s sensitive nature meshes well with your passionate side.  You won’t have any jealousy issues since cancer is devoted to the end.  Your relationship will only get better with time.

Capricorn is another good choice.  You are well matched in all areas.  You will be able to keep up with each other and understand each other on a deep level.  You should find that you team up well.  You will find common ground more often than not.  You will have a passionate connection and great success in the long term.

Bad Sign Matches

Aries is a horrible match.  You won’t have the sexual chemistry or even a connection on any level.  You both go in opposite directions.  You butt heads more often than not.  It is simply a mess of a relationship that will be unstable and lacking passion.  There really is no future here.

Libra won’t work as a love match because you simply won’t be able to put up with their indecisiveness or their wandering eye.  Your jealousy will always be at a peak and you simply will not be able to handle this love match.  You won’t find satisfaction with a Libra and things can get explosive, and not in a good way.  This is a rough relationship that will never see the long term.

Scorpios Need Passion And Mystery In Love

The Scorpio love horoscope characteristic is mainly passion so you’d be wise to wait for a person that offers you the opportunity for that passionate relationship. You need mystery and an intense relationship, so you’re not a good match for the local accountant. Leave anyone mundane and boring for the Taurus women to snatch. You need romance, mystery and someone as intensely loyal as you are. If you settle for less, one day you’ll attack with fury and leave the guy clueless about what he did wrong. The fact is he might not have done anything wrong except be himself.

Don’t fall prey to a man who wanders, both of you will end up losing. You need the same loyalty that you’re willing to give. Cheating on you is like playing Russian roulette with all the chambers filled. You know it’s going to be lethal; it just depends on when you pull the trigger.

Scorpios Are Deep And Intense

If you’re like most Scorpios, you have a keen interest in the occult, magic or anything that’s deep and mysterious. Look for someone that shares that interest and you’ll spend a lifetime together discovering hidden secrets. If you find someone that scoffs your ideas, they’ll probably never change and neither will you. This type of relationship is set for doom from the beginning.

Did you get an exotic plant from your love? Don’t let him get away; he’s perfect for you. The gift is especially significant if he attached a steamy love note to it. Make sure that the idea was his though. You may fall in love with the words and actions, but like the play, “Cyrano de Bergerac” you fell for the actions of the friend not the man who signed the note. Look for more than just one or two gestures before you lock in that Scorpio loyalty.

Scorpios Connect With Pisces And Cancer

That easygoing nature of the Pisces will fool you. You share a deep level of understanding, linked by an almost mystical merging of your spiritual side. Don’t lash out in one of your typical Scorpio rant because he’s a sensitive man, even though he doesn’t show it. If you’ve stung his ego one too many times, he’ll walk away and never look back. Don’t hide your feelings because he already knows them, but temper your remarks with kindness and you’ll have a long lasting, wonderful relationship.

Cancer signs are also good matches for you because of their intense emotional side. You’ll find men that have Virgo and Capricorn signs let you feel protected and loved. The stubborn and slightly boring Taurus guy is either going to make you swoon or turn you off. His steadfast loyalty is attractive to you but his well-grounded position on life may seem a bit mundane. Don’t discount this relationship until you get to know him better. The other sun signs aren’t immediately love connections but individual personalities, willingness to adapt and just the right mix of planetary signs can make them a mate for life.

No matter whom you connect with, the result is always the same. If they offer you a mystical insight to real love and passion, you’ll be the happiest woman on earth. If there’s cruelty or indifference, your stinger is ready and they’ll never know what hit them once you strike.