Confident And Comfortable

Be confident in your abilities.  A girl doesn’t want to kiss someone who gives off a vibe that they don’t know what they’re doing.  You need to give her signs that you are comfortable with her and that you like her.  This will help put hr at ease and get rid of the awkwardness that is common with first kisses.

Make some pre-kiss preparations.  Pop a breath mint.  Make sure you have shaved and don’t have any stubble to irritate her face.  Also make sure you are in the right place.  A first kiss is something private and most girls will prefer it that way.  The timing is important.  Don’t pull out your moves in public.  Wait until you are alone.

Right Timing

Usually you will know the time is right.  She will start to give you cues like getting physically closer to you.  Make eye contact to ensure she is feeling the moment, too.  Move slowly and lean in to her.  Make sure you put your arm around her or draw her into a hug. Then you can move in for the kiss.

Keep it light, gentle and easy.  Don’t force it.  If she wants a deeper, longer kiss then she will probably pull you in and hold you there.

That’s all there is to it.  A first kiss should be natural and not forced.  If you loosen up then it should help.  Remember that she will be nervous, too.  Just go with the moment and let yourself enjoy it.  And don’t be ashamed to smile when it is all over.  She may just pull you in for another.

Prepare For It

Prepare yourself for the kiss.  This is a kiss that involves your whole mouth so make sure it is clean.  Brush, floss and use mouth wash.  Pop a mint just to be sure.  Nothing ruins a good French kiss like bad breath or lingering garlic from your Italian dinner.

As with any kiss, make sure that the moment is right.  Trying to force a French kiss will just result in disaster.  You have to feel the moment.  She has to give you cues that the time is right.

Slow is Hot

Take it slow.  Once you get the cue, move in slowly. Maintain physical contact.  Pull her slowly to you and start with a simple closed mouth kiss.  Let it build naturally to a full French kiss.  Be sure to hold her during the kiss.  This is a really intense physical moment that require closeness.

Be gentle and avoid aggressive movements.  Don’t explore her teeth or gag her.  Be smooth and follow her movements.  Focus on lip contact and let the rest just flow naturally.  You may be surprised at how easy it turns out to be.

French kissing should be something you both want.  If you go in for the kiss but her lips are sealed up as tight as Fort Knox then don’t push further.  Be happy with a simple kiss and give it a try next time.  After all if she gives you a nice kiss, there are sure to be more to come and any one of those could be the right time for a French kiss.

Set The Mood

The most important part of a memorable kiss is setting the mood.  A romantic atmosphere can help with this.  In many cases it is the moments that lead up to the kiss.  You really want to get her ready.  Make her want to kiss you.  Build up some tension and make her wait for it.  That way when the kiss actually happens she will be savoring every second.

Touch helps to add to the atmosphere and set up the kiss.  Touch her gently.  Hold her hand or put your arm around her.  To pack a big punch, use subtle touches like brushing hair away from her face.  Also make eye contact.

Time It Right

You should feel the moment when it is right.  She will be leaning towards.  She may lick her lips.  She will probably maintain eye contact.  She may get quiet.  You should feel it.  If you don’t feel it then the time is probably not right.

Once the moment is right, go for it.  Don’t go at her too fast, take it slow.  Be gentle and pull her to you.  If she really likes it then she will pull you to her.  She may run her fingers through your hair.  Keep touching her.  Try caressing her or holding her head.  Let yourself go.  Be in the moment.  If you are truly enjoying it then chances are she is too.  An enjoyable kiss is something amazing and something she will never forget.