Here are some reasons why Halloween is the perfect holiday to meet women:

• Everyone is in the party mood.  Halloween is a holiday about getting together and having fun.  There will be parties everywhere.  Chances are you will get invited to at least one.  Go to the party and be ready to meet a lot of lovely ladies.

• Women become uninhibited.  Halloween is the only day of the year when dressing like a slut is acceptable.  Women love to explore the many sides of themselves with crazy and sexy costumes.  They may also be willing to explore the dating scene since they are feeling so free.

• You always have something to talk about.  No matter where you are or what you are doing, on Halloween there is always something to talk about.  Whether it is her great costume or the goofy costume of someone else, the best candy this year or the latest Halloween warnings, you can strike up an easy conversation.

As you can see Halloween is the top romantic holiday.  Nobody is looking for love, but it is in the air.  The setting is right, so get out there, put on a costume and meet some ladies.

1. Priest – This costume makes a statement without being too bold.  You are saying that you are honorable and faithful.  This is the perfect choice if you are in a relationship as it tells girls to stay away – you are taken.

2. Invisible Man – All it takes is a trench coat, some sunglasses and an ace bandage.  You will bring this classic costume back to life.  Everyone will appreciate the tribute to the great Halloween costumes of the past.

3. Chef - An easy costume that makes for a great conversation starter.  This will work if you really can cook.  If a woman comments on your costume tell her that you are really a master in the kitchen.  Great conversation may ensue.

4. Fireman – If you want to heat things up then try this costume.  Men in uniform are always sexy.  You will probably have to beat the women off all night!

5. Hugh Hefner – He is the king of porn, yet still one of the most respected men in the industry.  He knows how to do it right, without making it cheep or disgusting.  Dress as Hugh and you will turn heads.

These are just 5 great ideas.  There are so many out there.  All you need to do is look around.  Just be sure that you avoid anything that is questionable or could be offensive.  You want to attract the women, not repel them.

Turning Her Off Instead of On

Guys are notorious for being immature and a bit less refined than women, but this is no excuse to be a slob.  If you find yourself unable to find a girl or unable to make a relationship work then maybe it is time to take a look in the mirror.

Sometimes you are single simply because nobody wants to be with you.  The good news here is that this is something you can totally fix.

Start with Hygiene

Hygiene is essential.  It is okay to be sweaty after a hard days work, but don’t make sweaty your everyday look.  Get clean.  Take pride in yourself.  Bathe daily.  Brush your teeth.  Keep your hair well kept.  Dress nice or at least wear clothes that are clean.  Hygiene goes a long way when it comes to attracting women.

The Bigger Issue

The way you look is rarely an issue, though.  Most guys have the hygiene thing down.  The bigger issue that turns woman off is a bad attitude.  Rude behavior may work with your guy friends, but women don’t think it is so great in a potential mate.  Women want a guy who knows what behavior is appropriate.  This doesn’t mean you always have to act prime and proper, but you should act appropriately for the situation.

Women want to be proud of their man and if they see there is nothing to be proud about with you then they won’t think of you as relationship material.

Finding a mate is not simple, but it is not impossible.  People meet, date and marry everyday.  You may not understand why you are single because deep inside you don’t want to accept that you are just too picky.  One of the top reasons why people are still single is because they have impossibly high standards.

Is There Such as Thing as Too High Standards?

Having some standards for the type of woman you want is fine.  However, when you get really extreme and start to build this idea of the perfect woman you can get yourself stuck in a situation where no woman on the face of the earth could possible meet your standards.

There is such a thing as having standards that are just too high.  No woman wants to have to live up to some crazy expectation.  Even if you do by chance find your perfect woman, chances are she will not stick around long because it is too demanding to live up to your high expectations.

When you Get Too Picky

When you set really high standards the chances are that you are not really that picky.  You could probably be just fine with a woman who only meets some of your standards.  The real deal here is that you set these high standards because you are afraid of actually finding someone.  That’s right.  You are setting yourself up for failure on purpose.

Take a look at some of the things you want in a woman.  Are any of them justifiable?  Are some of them silly?  You need to do a major inventory and wipe out anything that seems a little too over the top.  Make sure you ask yourself why each characteristic is important to you.  If you cannot come up with a perfectly reasonable explanation why a woman must have a certain quality then cross it off your list.

By doing an inventory you will be able to go through your feelings and possibly expose why you are so picky.  Your whole goal is to uncover the hidden reasons behind your high standards so that you can open yourself up to the idea of taking a chance with a real woman.  Only then may you be able to really find love and happiness.

You are the type of person that chooses a partner that is unavailable.  While you may think this is just your luck, it is not.  You are actually choosing women who are not the right type for a reason.  You just need to define that reason so you can move on and start looking for a woman who is available and who might actually want to commit to you.

Issues Inside

When you constantly choose the wrong type of woman it is a sign that subconsciously you are not ready for something serious.  There are many reasons why you may do this.  Four top reasons are:

• A fear of intimacy

• Not feeling like you deserve something better

• Fear of failure

• Not knowing what you want

If you are afraid of getting into something real then you will avoid finding a woman who you could have something real with.  While you may not consciously be looking for the wrong type of woman, you will still actively do it because you are guided by your subconscious to do so.

Finding Yourself

Not only does dating the wrong women keep you from having a real relationship, but it lead to unnecessary heart ache.  You probably have horrible relationships and you may even be giving up on the idea of love.

In order to finally solve your problem and find a lasting love you need to identify why you choose the wrong type of woman and work to fix the problem.  You may need to go deep within yourself to figure out why you feel the way you do and work hard to resolve your fears.

The path to true love often begins with finding yourself first.  When you are aware of your own needs and wants then you are able to find a woman that can fulfill them for you.

Go Online

It may seem overrated, but the internet has brought many happy couples together.  Try social media sites for the best opportunities.  Compared to dating sites, social media sites are more real.  Women set up profiles to talk with friends and people they know.  They let their real personality shine through and you can learn a lot just by browsing their profile.

Organized Trips

Going on an organized trip is an amazing way to meet women because you already know you have a common interest.  Whether the trip is site seeing in NYC or going hiking in the hills, you will both be doing something you enjoy and immediately have things to talk about.

Give Back

Volunteering or joining a community service organization will help you meet women who care more for others than for themselves.  You will know off the bat that the women you meet are kind hearted and caring.  Plus you get the added bonus of giving back and helping other yourself.

Get Fit

Sign up at a local gym or join a fitness class.  You know women are always worried about their bodies, so these places are filled with women, especially single women.  You get to show off your skills in the gym or class and meet a lovely lady that is also interested in being fit.

Take the Dog for a Walk

Dog parks are a surprisingly great place to meet gals.  Many single girls have a dog for company or to keep them safe and those pups need to play.  The local dog park allows for good conversation, too.  You can discuss your furry friends and use them as a way to build rapport.