Figure out what you like about her.  Make sure that you really want to take this step in your relationship.  Think about what will change and if that is something you want.

Have a clear idea of what it means for her to be your girlfriend.  Know what you expect to happen after you make it officially.

Be ready to clearly explain to her why you want her to be your girlfriend.  Have a good reason and be sure you can clearly communicate it.

Choose the right time and place. Make sure you can be alone and not interrupted.  Don’t spring it on her either.  Let her know that you need to talk.  Just tell her you want to discuss something with her and make sure not to make it seem bad or she may jump to the conclusion that you are dumping her.

After you ask her, let her talk.  If she needs time to think then give it to her.  Be sure you are being sensitive to her feelings.

Take these steps and things should go rather smoothly.  If you already know that she cares about you then chances are she will be excited about being your girlfriend and the evening will probably end on a high note.

Maybe you have been on the dating scene for a long time.  You have probably dated some nice girls, but have yet to find the one that is “the one”.  What is going on?

Guys, I am here to give you some insight into what you must do to transform yourself into the type of guy that women are dying to meet and be with. I will tell you about the no fail method that will help you finally snag your dream girl.  Just read on.

Put Yourself in Her Shoes

Do you get nervous when approaching an attractive women?  Do you feel self conscious?  Do you know that she probably feels the same way?

The truth is that sometimes you need to step back and see the situation as it really is.  You are not the only person in the equation here.  She probably feels the exact same things that you do, so relax.  You are both nervous and both anxious.  You both want to make a good impression.  Don’t let nerves ruin it for you.

Realize that she feels the same way and you are not alone.  This will really help you to calm down.

Change your Self Image

Too many men think too lowly of themselves.  This low self confidence shines right through.  A woman will pick it up and it can be a real turn off.  In order to attract a woman, you have to feel like you deserve her.

Building up your confidence is a must if you are serious about finding a woman to be with.  You cannot be a wimp.  You cannot be a guy who doesn’t think he is good enough.

Communicate the Right Way

Communication is not really a male strength.  Women know this.  We don’t expect you to be a master of the spoken word, but we do expect that you can carry on a conversation.

You need to be sure that you have some talking points so you can keep the conversation going.  Know what to say and what not to say.  Avoid the cheesy pick up lines, unless you are using them for a strictly humorous effect.  Talk about her.  Ask questions and be attentive.

Make sure you are reading her body language and taking cues.  Also be aware of your own body language.  Don’t let your eyes wander or let nervous habits interfere with your conversation.

Be Serious

If you really want to find your dream girl then you will have to work at it.  You need to be serious about flirting and dating.  Make sure you know what you want and that you believe you are deserving of a good woman.  Build yourself up and go out there and knock her socks off with great conversation.

Be true to yourself and keep it real with the women you meet.  When you do finally meet your dream girl you will find that even if you say something stupid or feel a little self conscious, that she will still be into you.

• She is texting you or calling you all the time and engaging you in long conversations.  Girls like to talk, but if they are not serious about you then they won’t break their back trying to talk to you all the time.

• She doesn’t like it when you talk about other girls.  If she is seeing you as her man then she will act jealous or get upset when you talk about any girl but her.

• She starts to react differently to things you say.  When a girl thinks you are in a relationship she will take everything you say to heart.  She will seem more sensitive and she will take you seriously no matter what you say.

• She changes how she dresses or looks.  She will try to improve her appearance because her goal now is to keep you interested.

• She jumps at every chance to be around you.  You may start seeing her everywhere you go or she will start finding ways for you to be together more.

• Her friends know all about you.  A woman won’t talk about a guy who is just a friend with all her girlfriends unless she is really into him and thinks he is into her.

• She tries to get to know your family.  She may start wanting to meet your family members or find ways to get to know them because she wants to get to know more about you.

• She starts touching you more.  When a woman is comfortable with a guy she likes to touch him more often.  She may start with hand holding and progress to running her fingers through your hair.  No matter what she is showing she is comfortable with you.

• She treats you like a boyfriend.  This is perhaps the biggest sign.  She will start expecting you to take her out and do things boyfriends do.

Think Romance And Closeness

Start by thinking with your heart.  How can you show her that you love her?  Romance and closeness work every time.  Now you don’t need an expensive five star dinner with the best wine.  A romantic evening can be as simple as a picnic under the stars.  Trust me, she won’t care what she is eating if she is with you.  However, chocolate covered strawberries are a cheap idea that will make her fall even more madly in love with you, so it couldn’t hurt to include some in your picnic basket.

Bigger is Not Always Better

Don’t think bigger is better. Think on a small scale.  You don’t need to be in a crowd of people.  Just the two of you keeps it intimate and romantic.  You don’t need to surprise her with something huge.  As long as you put your all into it, she will be happy with anything.  Instead of a dozen roses, just give her one.  That packs a much bigger punch and will really get to her heart.

If you are truly strapped for cash then stay at home.  A night in can be as fun, if not more, than a night out.  I will leave it at that.

Spending large amounts of cash on a girl may be fun once in a while, but if you feel you always need to be a big spender it will get old fast.  If your girl really cares about you she won’t expect you to spend every penny on her.