Before you can look for the perfect way to celebrate, first take the time to understand what women appreciate in a gift; the effort. A woman likes to feel cherished. She likes to know that you spent time thinking about how to make her happy. And that’s how she will judge everything you do. Fortunately, even at the last minute, you can still pull off great ideas that will make her feel as if you had been planning it for years, just to wow her.

1. Full day at the spa. Don’t just give her a gift certificate, it will not do it. but instead, find out when she is free in the coming days, or go discreetly out of your way to free her day, then make reservation on that day for her. Get a blank card and write down why you think she deserve a day at the spa, praise her, finish by mentioning in some way that you made sure she was free so that she could really be pampered. Give her the card with breakfast in bed. To really impress her, send her with her best friend.

2. Send a scrapbook by mail. Not just any scrapbook. By a huge notebook and start a project. Fill in the first pages with some shared memories. Then a new date, the day you are celebrating for example, but don’t finish it. On the first page, dedicate the book to your life together and let her know you hope you will fill it together with many memories. Wrap the book and send it by mail to her, especially if you both live together.

3. Chick flick party for her an the girls. Is there a movie or TV series she always wanted to watch but hasn’t come around to it yet? Get her girlfriends on board and organize a night for her and the girls. take care of everything, it doesn’t have to be too much, just make sure she and her friends will enjoy what you provide. You don’t have to stay after the party start, but you will be the talk of the night.

4.Give her the key to you heart. Send her at the office a series of four small gifts with specific messages. For example, first send her a chocolate heart because her heart is so beautiful to you. Second send her a question mark because you hope you have her heart. Third send her a key because it belongs to her. Finally, send her a box that she can open with the key, inside you heart, because you love her.

5. Do something for her mom. Has she being talking about something she has to do for her mom but hasn’t been able to get to it? Go ahead and do. Go out of your way and make sure her mom is taken care for, but don’t tell her. She will find out soon enough and because you were humble about it, you will score higher.

Brainstorm Possible Girlfriend Nicknames

The first step to coming up with a sweet nickname is to start thinking about your girl.  Try to come up with a list of all the things that she reminds you of. other good things to add to the lists are her favorite jokes, her favorite memories. recalling something that made her laugh to tear can remind you of something she had sid or saw that was really sweet. And since it’s associated with good memories, it will always bring a smile on her face.

Narrow Down the Names

Now you can look over the list and see what would work and what would not.  Some things will simply seem awkward or inappropriate.  Go for those that  are sweet and cute and brings a smile on her face. don’t limit yourself to one nickname; different nicknames can be handy for various situation and the purpose you have in mind.  Sometimes you want to stop her tears, others you ant her to laugh, or better yet you want to make love. Keeping the situation in mind will help you chose the one that will be the most effective.

Customize And Test It

Once you think you have a pretty good core name, go ahead and make it really fit her.  For example, let’s say you choose bunny and let’s say she is short.  Her nickname could be little bunny.  That is cute and it is not offensive. Also go ahead and test; actually I recommend you do. Use a nickname and watch for her reaction; positive you keep it, negative, you toss it. Testing will also help you see how natural it is to use.

Finally, once you have selected the nickname or more than one, use it only in the intended circumstances so that it doesn’t lose it’s effect. If you only call “daddy’s girl” when you are ready to rip her clothes off, don’t call her that when she’s tired and cleaning the house and you are watching TV and asking when diner’s ready. In case you don’t know by the way, it’s really a bad time to talk to her about sex.

Restaurant Proposal Has Lots Of Pressure

Let’s face it; there is a lot of pressure associated with a marriage proposal, you proposing and not knowing one hundred percent if she will say yes. And when you propose in a restaurant, people notice and usually, you involve the restaurant staff. So if she says no, wow, well, it’s almost like being said no on TV, ok, very close. You get the point.

Well you see, a big part of that pressure gets to her. And let’s be honest here; the girl who says “no” or “I’d like to think it over” to a marriage proposal is seen as a, well, I won’t use the word but you know it. If you are a nice girl, you don’t want to be seen that way so what a pressure!

How About A More Intimate Setting?

Don’t assume that your girlfriend will say yes to your marriage proposal. There are many reasons why she might need to think it over and is unable to give you a response right away. So here’s my prefer version of things; ask her first in private, where there’s only the two of you and she is not afraid to be totally honest with you and share her true feelings, I mean fears.

It also gives you a chance to win her over and help her make the leap, especially if your proposal is a total surprise for her. Don’t assume that if she hesitates it doesn’t mean she loves you. Frankly, it’s only in the movies that people are always ready to say yes to a proposal. Even when you really want it, it is such a big deal you can’t help but ponder. It takes a while to get used to the idea.

Once she has agreed, now you can really surprise her with post-proposal dinner at the restaurant, with the staff involve and the whole nine yard. You can even call it a surprise engagement party, where you get to do the big romantic gesture. That’s a better way to cement the deal. No pressure!