If She Asks You

If your girl specifically asks you to talk dirty to her, consider it a pass to say almost anything you want.  Don’t worry about censoring your words.  Don’t worry about offending her.  Chances are she is up for anything and the dirtier, the better.

What is Dirty Talk?

Part of the awkwardness of talking dirty is that it is taboo.  We are not usually encouraged to talk dirty.  It seems odd to do it.  However, when you are talking to dirty to your girlfriend, you need to relax and feel comfortable with it.

The guidelines for dirty talk is really based upon your relationship.  Just look at your relationship.  Think about what your girlfriend is like.  If you are at the point where you are thinking of talking dirty then you are probably very comfortable together, so you should know what you can and cannot say.  Follow her lead and watch how she reacts so you know if she likes something or not.

Getting Started

To make talking dirty easier, try starting out by doing it through text messages or on the phone.  Try it in bed.  Sometimes it can be hard to get started, but once you do it, you will find it easier the next time and the next time.

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Bye Bye Same Old

The first thing to do is look for ways to break up the monotony.  Doing the same things day in and day out is boring.  You get stuck in a rut and you get bored.  That is when relationships fall apart.  You need to find ways to change things up.  Alter the schedule and surprise your woman with something exciting and new.

Turn On The Positive

Stop complaining or spilling all your worries everyday.  Part of being in a relationship is having someone to tell your complaints too, but too much complaining can be a turn off.  Try changing things up and instead of your usually after work session of complaining about someone stealing the stapler or how you spilled your lunch in your lap, try asking about her day.

More Contact

Touch is a great part of a relationship and of being close.  Try using touch in new ways.  Your partner may just feel a spark of new passion when you gentle rub their back unexpectedly.  Most women have a spot that the really like to be touched.  For many woman that is the neck.  Try soft kisses on her neck, but avoid sucking.  No respectable woman likes having a hickey and giving her one will kill any moment.

Whatever you normally do, skip it.  In or out of the bedroom, try new things.  Skip the same old, same old.  Make her feel like she is with a whole new man and you will be surprised at just how much that benefits your relationship and brings back some life that may have been slipping away.

Help Her Out

Women love to be loved.  Pamper her.  This doesn’t even have to involve money or sex.  Simply do things she likes.  If you know she appreciates not having to cook dinner then cook for her.  If she loves chocolate then get her a box.  Do things that make her happy and make her feel adored.  Play into the things that she likes and this will show her that you pay attention to things and that you are not just hanging around for sex.

Use Words

Women love the spoken word.  It is no shocker that women love talking and they love being talked to.  Use this to your advantage.  Say sweet things to her.  Try your hand at writing a love note.  Give her compliments.  Make your words cause her to smile.

Make the mood romantic.  When you are alone set the scene for romance and you will surely get the result you desire.  Women react to a feeling of romance.  They get turned on by love and all things associated with it. You want her to feel completely sexy and confident.

Above all else, don’t be pushy and take your time.  No woman likes being rushed whether it is in or out of the bedroom.  Slow down.  Be smooth and soft and gentle.  This is not a race.  Passion comes from time and it needs to be built up.  You cannot expect her to go from zero to 60 in a matter of minutes.  It could take hours, but the pay off is worth the wait.

Step Back …

Start by scaling things back.  You probably think that making her want you is all about showering her with attention and being with her all the time.  Stop for a minute and think about how you would feel if the tables were turned.  Chances are you would feel smothered and want nothing more than to get away from her.  Well, honey, that is how she feels, too.  Give the girl some space!

Subtle But Leave No Doubt

You should use subtle ways to show her how bad you want her.  When a woman knows she is wanted, she likes it.  It will make you more appealing to her because a woman loves a man who thinks she is amazing.  Do small things, like sending flowers or planning a romantic dinner.  Tell her what you like about her and why she turns you on.

Lastly, don’t give her any reason to doubt that you are interested in her.  Be focused on her.  Don’t flirt with other women.  Do what you can to make sure there is no doubt that you want to be her man.  If she shows signs of doubting your intentions then simply do something to show her you care.

Your girl obviously likes something about you, but it is common to fear that eventually she will start to drift away.  That happens sometimes, but if you are serious about her then don’t forget to keep that spark alive.

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