Everyone is Different

It is important when considering body language that you know everyone is different.  Some people may use certain body language because it is a cultural thing.  Some rules may not apply to certain people because they just have normal reactions that can be read as something different.  You really need to know the person at least a little to understand what their body language means.

Know the Setting

Sometimes the environment can influence body language.  When a guy moves closer to you it usually can be seen as he is interested in you.  However, if you are in a loud place then he simply may move close just so he can hear you.

Be Aware of Your Own Body Language

Your body language can influence his.  If you are giving off signs that you are not interested then he will do the same.  Make sure that your body language is inviting and that you are giving off signals that could mislead him.

While knowing certain tell tale body language signs can help you in reading a man’s body language, the tips above will go a step further.  These tips will help you to see that sometimes things are not what they seem. You will be able to read body language better without misunderstanding if you keep these things in mind.

Unfortunately, some women take it a bit too far.  It is one thing to want a sexy Halloween costume and another thing to look like a complete slut.  When choosing your Halloween costume, you really need to be careful not to cross the line from sexy to trashy.

Showing Skin

One way to keep it sexy without crossing the line is watching skin exposure.  It is sexy to show a little skin, but don’t show too much.  Everything should be covered and covered well.  A short skirt works, but if your bum is hanging out the bottom then it is too short.

Make Up

Make up can actually make a sexy costume trashy.  You need to keep your make up in line with the costume.  If your costume is flashy then tone down the make up.  Also avoid make up that just doesn’t work with your skin tone.  Still follow make up rules even though it is Halloween.

Halloween can be fun.  You can be someone completely different than what you are in everyday life.  That is the point of Halloween.  However, you also have to remember that the day after Halloween you go back to being you, but everyone will remember Halloween.

It can be easy to lose a little respect if you choose a Halloween costume that is trashy.  If you want to go sexy then be careful.  Make sure you look good.  Choose a costume that fits and that covers you. You can show off the sexy side of you without trashing it up.

Tell Tale Sign #1: He talks about you.

If he talks about you and he is telling his friends about you then he is interested.  A guy won’t waste his time talking to his friends about you if he has no interest.

Tell Tale Sign #2: He looks at you.

If a guy does more than just glance then he is probably interested.  If you notice his eyes on you often and his gaze lingers a bit then he likes what he sees.

Tell Tale Sign #3: He asks you questions.

If you are talking and he asks about you and shows interest in you then he wants to know more because he likes you.  If he is focused on you during a conversation then you can be pretty sure he is truly interested.

Tell Tale Sign #4: He seems to always be around.

If you seem to always run into him or you just happen to be in the same places often then he is probably doing it on purpose.  He wants you to notice him because he has noticed you.

These tell tale signs are all pretty obvious, but we tend to talk ourselves out of the idea that he could like us.  We just let our insecurities to come out.  Step back a minute and really look at the situation.  It should be more obvious and you will know for sure that he likes you.  So push doubt aside and get real.  He likes you, girl.  He really likes you.