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How To Flirt With a Guy

Sandy B. — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 19:51:36 +0000

Flirting is an art. As a woman you really can take control of things when you master flirting techniques. Start by making yourself feel flirty. When you look good and you are self confident, that is a great start. Confidence is the key to catching his attention, which you need to do to be able to flirt.

Attitude

You also need the right attitude. Flirting is playful and fun. Drop the serious facade and let yourself just relish in the connection you are making. Make sure your body is not giving off the wrong signals. Smile and make eye contact. Laugh a little and loosen up.

When you really want to take your flirting up a notch, touch him. Just reach out and playfully touch his arm. If you feel bold then grab his hand or touch his face. Just keep it light and don’t linger.

Compliment

To really reel a man in all you need to do is throw a compliment his way. Guys love to know how great they are. Tell him he’s amazing and he is putty in your hands. Make sure you are being real, though. Fake compliments fall flat.

Guys also like to talk about themselves. Let him tell you about how amazing he is at football or how he graduated top of his class from business school. Listen and stay attentive. Keep making eye contact, laugh at appropriate times and smile a lot. Be sincere. Let him know you are listening by asking questions or making comments.

Flirting should be fun. It should be engaging and it should make you both feel good. If he’s into you then it should just naturally flow. It should be easy. If he is not into you, then move on to the next guy. There are plenty of guys who will love to flirt with you, so don’t waste your time on guys who don’t want to flirt.

How To Know if a Guy Likes You

Sandy B. — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 19:39:37 +0000

Trying to figure out how a guy feels almost takes a PhD in psychology. They certainly are not good at just saying what they feel. Even when they like you it can seem impossible to get a read on them. However, despite their great inability to communicate, guys still give off signs when they like a girl.

Body Language

Look for body language that says “I’m into you”. He will try to get closer to you. He will either move towards you or turn his body towards you. He will also hold your gaze and try to lock you in eye contact.

Listen to what he says. If he likes you chances are he will be nervous. Guys often find it difficult to talk to a girl they really like. He may brag about himself and try to talk himself up because he wants to prove himself to you.

Watch what he’s doing. If he seems focused on you then that is a good sign. Watch how he acts with other girls. If he treats you different then he may like you.

His Accidental Touches

The biggest tale tell sign is if he touches you. Even a simply touch like grabbing your arm at the elbow to guide you is a big thing. Touch is a way of getting closer. Anything from outright grabbing your hand to a simple brushing of his shoulder against yours are all ways to touch you and make that intimate contact.

Guys often use actions to speak for them, so keep your eyes on his actions. Guys may not be very good at communicating, but their body almost always betrays them. They may say one thing, but the truth will always be in what they do.

How to Make Yourself Irresistible to Any Man

Sandy B. — Mon, 21 Sep 2009 18:04:44 +0000

Many women go about attracting men the wrong way. Being sexy is not the only way to attract a man and it certainly is not the best way to attract a guy when you want a meaningful relationship. Making yourself irresistible to men is something most women have to learn. We all can’t be lucky enough to have that natural charisma that makes guys fall at our feet, but we can work our way to it.

You have to understand what a man wants

Men want a woman who:

they can love

they can cherish

they can respect

will love, cherish and respect them

is confident and secure in who she is

makes him feel amazing and wanted

In order to make yourself irresistible to men you have to give him what he wants. You need to be approachable so he can get to know you. You need to be open and warm, not distant and cold. Make sure you smile a lot and that you exude happiness. Make sure your attitude is contagious. By that I mean, make sure that you make people around you feel happy and confident.

Love Yourself

Do what you need to do to feel amazing about yourself. You need to love yourself so you can have that confidence that radiates. Confidence is key. You have to be secure in who you are.

Be elegant. Always keep your composure. Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence. Be charming and graceful. All these things will only accentuate your confidence and make people want to be around you.

Men Want Respect

Treat men with respect. Make them feel that you really care about them and value them. Don’t be afraid to throw in some sexual power here. Let him see that side of you that’s uninhibited, but keep it under control.

You want to make sure that you are giving off clear signals that you are someone interesting and fun to be around. This is what attracts guys. You may not make a connection with every guy you attract, but you should have no trouble attracting them if you master being a confident, strong and secure woman.