Spark It Up

Your normal kiss can be sparked up with passion that will let him know you are really digging him.  He will probably be stunned at your aggressiveness and most likely, he will really be into it.  Guys love it when a girl takes control and shows a little initiative.

Adding some spark to a kiss starts even before your lips touch.  Lean into him like you are about to kiss, but don’t do it just yet.  Let the anticipation build a bit.  Look in his eyes.  Look at his lips.  Take him in and enjoy the build up of excitement.

French Kissing In Action

Now you can gently press your lips to him.  Pull him in closer to you.  Keep it slow.  Accentuate things with touch and movement.  Get closer and really connect on all levels.  Run your hands through his hair.  Let a hand fall to grasp his bicep.  Just bring some more physical contact into the situation.

At this point you can move into a French kiss if you like.  This is a good way to add some punch to a typical kiss.  Just let things progress naturally.  If you need air then pull away slightly, but keep as close as possible.  You may pull away, take a breath, kiss him softly on the cheek and then go back to your kissing.

The whole point here is to make the contact more than just the connection between two sets of lips.  You want to go deeper than the physical level and intertwine your whole beings.  When a kiss turns passionate you can just feel it in the air.  It is undeniable.

Leave Him Wanting More

Your first date kiss has to be something that leaves him wanting more.  It has to be something innocent and sweet.  You want that first date kiss to be the stepping stone to many more kisses to come.

You need to be sure the moment is right.  There will just be that feeling between you and your date.  You will sense he wants to kiss you.  Don’t be afraid to make the first move.  Many guys buy into all the stuff about how women don’t want to be kissed on a first date.   Take control and give him signs you want a kiss.  Lean into him.  Touch his arm.  Make eye contact.  Lick your lips.  Do what it takes so he gets the hint.

Make Your Move Slowly

Don’t attack him.  Move slow.  If he doesn’t seem to be on the path to making the move, then do it yourself.  Lean to him.  Touch his face gently and pull him closer to you.  Gently let your lips touch.  Pull away slowly and give him a smile.

He will definitely like it.  He may even pull you in for another.  If not, that’s okay.  You have broken that awkward barrier and let him know you want to kiss him and that you liked kissing him.  That is all it usually takes to let him know you are into him and you want your lips to get together again in the future.

Meet Him With Passion

Passion is all about feelings.  Since guys are better at communicate their feelings through actions than through words, giving him a passionate kiss is communicating with him on his level.

A passionate kiss requires the right setting.  You have to have those strong feelings of attraction built up with him.  You both need to be interested in each other on a deeper level.  You need to feel secure with him and confident that he will respond positively to the passionate kiss.

SeizeThe Moment

The best way to take a kiss from casual to passionate is to just do it.  Don’t think about it or you will get nervous.  Just capture the moment.  You can feel it when the time is right.  It is like an electrical charge in the air.

Pull him close and let your emotions come out in the kiss.  Maintain physical contact and really break the barrier between you and him.  A passionate kiss should make you feel like one.  It is almost more intimate than actually having sex.  In most cases you will even be a bit breathless after a passionate kiss.

Smile And Make Eye Contact

Once you pull away you should smile at him and make eye contact.  He may seem a bit mystified or a little off balance.  This is good.  It means you were successful at pulling off a kiss that was anything but the usual.

Your everyday smooch is something that is often detached.  A passionate kiss, though, is completely about the moment and about you two.  It is deeper and more emotional.  When you take that step from casual kiss to passionate kiss he will notice and chances are there will be many more passionate kissed in your future.