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How To Keep Your Boyfriend Hot For You

Sandy B. — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 20:54:43 +0000

Passion and spice are always nice in a relationship, but keeping those things can be tricky. The day to day grind tends to take over and we fall into patterns. We get comfortable, and comfortable almost never goes hand in hand with passion. If you want to keep your boyfriend hot for you then you have to keep passion alive.

Take It Outside

Passion is not all about what you do in the bedroom. The most passionate relationships have that spark all the time. When you see each other you feel that spark and you are just content with each other. Passion has to be natural and not forced. It is that spark that keeps a relationship alive.

So, how you keep him hot for you without making it a forced thing? How do you prevent that passion from fizzling out? You have to actually be attentive and alive in your relationship. Relationships do not just stay hot. You need to keep the heat going.

Bring Some Mystery Into action

Start by keeping him on his toes. Men love to be surprised by their woman. If he never quite knows what he is going to get, it can be a good thing. Switch up your routine. Do things he would not be expecting.

Men are not as talkative as us and they do not rely on words as much as we to convey feelings or thoughts. Men are all about action, so take his cue. Don’t tell him how you feel, show him. Actions mean much more to him.

Be Hot For Him

Another great way to keep him hot for you is to be hot for him. Be his biggest cheerleader. Always stand beside him no matter what he may be going through. Be supportive and love him through the good and bad.

Doing things that are not ordinary can really keep passion alive. Coming at him on his level with actions that speak volumes will catch his attention. Being a bit obsessed with him and showing him he is your number one can also do wonders and keep him hot for you.

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Five Things He Wants in Bed

Sandy B. — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 20:34:14 +0000

It can be very easy to think that no matter what you do in bed, your man will love it. That may be true – guys aren’t picky – as long they are getting bedroom action, they are generally happy. However, when you are in a long term relationship, things can get stale and that can leave him wishing for more. Boredom breeds trouble, so keep him happy by providing him with things he craves, but is too afraid to ask for.

Love it And Go For It

Your man wants enthusiasm. I am not talking about becoming a peppy bedroom cheerleader. He seriously wants to know you are into this. Be aggressive. Make your intentions more obvious. Tell him in no uncertain terms what you want and then go for it. He will love it.

Your man also wants you to switch it up every now and then. You get in a groove and fall into certain patterns because it works, but it is a bore. The bedroom is the perfect place to try new things and let loose. So, change things up. Come out of that rut with some serious passion.

Be A Bad Girl

Spice. One word, one thing, that will drive him crazy. Add spice. Add adventure. Every man craves a bad girl, so indulge him. Give him that bad girl that he secretly desires.

You always hear about people who are selfish in bed. Make sure there is equal give and take. Don’t let him do all the giving. Take the reins and give a little, too. Be generous and he will be thankful.

Sometimes women fall into a role of seeing the sexual side of their relationship as a duty. When this happens you lose all authenticity. Your man starts to see that you would probably rather be anywhere but with him in that moment. That is a total mood killer. Start being more authentic. Really want to be with him and show him that is the only place you want to be. Men get turned on just by knowing you are into it.

How To Dance Your Way To The Bedroom

Sandy B. — Sat, 26 Sep 2009 20:21:19 +0000

Part of keeping your bedroom lively is trying new things. One hot new thing for the bedroom is adding elements from the strip club right in your own room. For some women this can be a challenge. Reaching out and capturing your seductive, sexy side can be hard sometimes. However, we all have an inner sex kitten that is dying to get out and there is no better way to capture that than adding some stripper moves to the bedroom.

The Adventurous

If you are a woman who is up for anything and who has proudly let her inner sex kitten out then go all out. Add a stripper pole to your bedroom. Get a few lessons – they are readily available in gyms around the country. Learn some hot moves and put on a private show for your man. Make him feel like he is in a club and you are his favorite dancer.

The Shy School Girl

If you are still a reserved, shy school girl, then you may need some prep time. Skip the pole. It really is for those who are more adventurous and if you just aren’t that kind of girl then it could come off looking more humorous than sexy. Try Carmen Electra’s workouts. These workouts teach you sexy moves that are perfect bedroom material. Put your new moves to work and be his private dancer.

You will be shocked at just how well bringing a little seductive dancing to the bedroom fires him up. He will be thrilled and you will get an extra boost to your self esteem that will make you feel like the sexiest woman in the world. It is a win-win situation that will greatly improve your nights in the bedroom.