Nobody likes a cheater, right?  What if that cheater is a wholesome, down home country girl who we watched grow up?  Does that make things different?  When I heard about LeAnn Rimes cheating ways I was floored.  I could not believe this subtle songstress had crossed that line.

You think You Know Someone…

It really makes you start to question everything.  Her image was sparkling clean.  She was a country sweetheart and she was innocent.  Then news broke of her affair with hunky Eddie Cibrian, who is also married and whom she met on the set of a TV movie.

There are a lot of ways to justify cheating or at least a lot of ways people try to justify why they cheat.  Right now LeAnn isn’t even trying to say she’s sorry.  In fact, they aren’t trying to hide what they are doing.  They just jetted off to Mexico to celebrate LeAnn’s 27^th birthday.

Is It All That Worth It?

Soon, though, cracks will appear and they will be running back to their spouses trying to make things right.  Can you really ever make things right, though?  How do you forgive someone for being so selfish?  Really, that is what cheating is.  It is a selfish act where you show you have no regard for the feelings of your partner.

In my mind, cheating is unforgivable, but we often see people take back a cheating lover.  What makes people forgive the unforgivable?  Would you forgive a cheating spouse or boyfriend?

At what point do you get over their selfish act?  How can you ever get past it?  I really am stumped on this one because I cannot figure out how anyone could ever look into the eyes of a cheater and ever trust them again.  As we all know, trust is part of the foundation for a good relationship.