Big Spender

It’s always nice to have a man pamper you and be willing to spend his hard earned cash on you, but some guys take it too far.  The first date is the time for getting to know each other, not a time to create yourself some eye candy.  Guess this guy didn’t get the memo.

Lexus, Perfect Smile, Designer Cloths

Randy thought he was cool.  He met me for our date by pulling up outside the restaurant in his Lexus, flashing his perfect smile and sporting designer duds.  I felt a little intimidated since I am more of a middle class gal.  However, I was impressed.  I was glad his online profile wasn’t a lie.  He did have money and he was good looking.

We ended up having a great dinner.  We had good conversation without those awkward silent moments we all dread on a date.  He paid for the check with no problem too.  After dinner he said he wanted to go dancing, so I was up for it since dinner went so good.

Dolled Up To Show Off

We got in his car and I realized we were not driving in the direction of the clubs.  I started to get nervous and asked where we were going.  He said he didn’t much care for the clubs in this town, that we were going to fly to NYC in his private plane.

I was not really into this and started to object.  He then started saying how he was going to buy me a new dress, get me some jewels and some Jimmy Choo shoes.  He actually made the statement that I needed to get “dolled up to roll with him because he wants a girl he can show off.”  This really turned me off. Maybe the girls he’s used to dating would love to be showered with gifts and “dolled up”, but that isn’t me and I was really offended.  I told him to take me home immediately.

Thankfully, he listened to me, but he wasn’t too happy.  All the way to my house he was droning on about how I had no class and how I should be happy a guy wants to buy me “pretty new things”.  I couldn’t wait to get out of that car and bid that loser farewell forever.

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