Have you ever been rejected by a woman before you even talk to her?  It happens to everyone, so don’t feel too bad.  You want to know what happened?  It’s all in the approach, honey.  Something you did turned her off.  Learn some top things you can do to mess up the approach and turn her off right away.

Being Too Direct

When you come at her like a charging bull it is intimidating and seriously, just scary.  She will run away or at least turn away.  You have lost her right off.  Try a more gentle approach.  A straight on approach is a little too dominant for most woman.  Come in from the side for the best approach that won’t freak her out.

Being Lame

If you think a good ice breaker is some lame pick up line then be ready for a lot of rejection.  Most women will laugh you off and you’ve lost your chance.  If you want to be funny then find another way.  Otherwise, just say hello.

Being Pushy

Remember personal space?  Respect it.  I don’t care if you have drank a little too much, don’t be touching her too much.  You should not touch her straight away.  Most women will feel violated by this and want to get away from you fast.

With these things in mind, you should find it a little easier to not scare off every woman you approach.  It can be difficult to drop these habits, but you need to find an appropriate way to approach women that won’t make them run for the hills.  Just remember that women want to feel comfortable.  The minute you take them out of their comfort zone you are playing with trouble.  Follow her lead and let her show you what she is okay with.  That is the best way to make a good approach.