Learning the secret of body language can be a real help when you are dating.  Even in a relationship being able to read body language will help you to get in her head and tell what she is thinking. The same thing can be said about your body language.  It speaks volumes.   Non-verbal communication is very important and deserves your attention.  You can make your dating experience and your relationships more successful by knowing what your body language is telling others.

Voice

Voice is part of body language.  The tone of your voice can say a lot.  You probably already know this from times when you have argued.  A raised voice often is associated with loud voices.  Your voice can also project your feelings of negative or positive in a situation.  You need to talk to someone you are interested in with a positive undertone to your voice.  This grabs attention and shows her that you are interested.

Body Position

Are you moving away from her or turning your body away?  If so then you are telling her you are not interested.  Sometimes you may do things out of nervousness, but they come across as dislike to her.  You need to make sure that your body is not saying something that you don’t mean.

Eyes

Make sure that your eyes are not betraying you either.  You have to maintain eye contact and show interest by looking at her and focusing on her.  Make sure your eyes don’t give you away.  Don’t let them dart around the room.  Also make sure that you have a positive mindset or your eyes can reflect that you are uneasy or scared.

Your body can give away your inner thoughts.  Sometimes the body language that you are sending out is not really negative, but it can come across as such.  You just need to be more aware of your body when communicating with women.