If you are in a relationship with a girl who is still pining for her ex boyfriend then you need to do something.  A girl who is still caught up on her ex is not ready to get involved emotionally with someone new.  If she cannot move past her old flame, then there really is no room for you in her life.

How to Spot a Hang Up

You really need to be honest.  You have to take a look at her and at your relationship.  You need to really look at the signs that she is sending you.  You have to be honest with yourself about what you see.

No matter how much she likes you, if she is not over her ex then there is no future for your relationship.  If you are even questioning whether or not she is over her ex then chances are that something really is up.

Five Signs to Look For

Sign #1: She still harbors a lot of anger towards him and that relationship.

If she is always talking about him and putting him down then she is bitter.  If she is constantly trash talking then it means she is still emotional hung up on him.  If he really didn’t mean anything to her then she would let it go and be happy moving on with you.

Sign #2: They are good friends.

Sometimes relationships do end up as just a friendship, but when they are close friends it means they have not let go.  It doesn’t matter why the relationship ended.  People rarely stay friends when they are over it.

Sign #3: She’s indifferent about her ex.

Sometimes signs are not so clear.  If she doesn’t ever want to talk about him or the relationship this very well could signal something is up.  Females like to talk and when they clam up about something it is cause for concern.  Chances are she doesn’t want to talk about him because she still has feelings for him and talking about him brings those up.  She may feel guilty about having those feelings, so she avoids talking about him.

Sign #4: She seems to know too much about him.

If your girl seems to be up to date about her ex and what is happening in his life then she still has feelings.  If she wanted him gone then she would not be trying to stay in loop about what he is doing.

Sign #5: She gets flustered when she sees him.

If you have the opportunity to see them interact then you have the chance to see first hand how she feels.  If she is over him then she will treat him like anyone else.  However, if she is not over him then she will get flustered and act nervous around him.

Watching your girlfriend and being aware of her actions will really help you to figure out how she feels about her ex.  It is better to figure it out sooner rather than later.