You lost the love of your life.  She walked away and now you want her back.  There are some definite right and wrong ways to go about getting your ex back.  Go the wrong way and you will lose her forever.  Go the right way and there is a chance that you can get her back.

These are five things that you should do if you are really serious about getting your ex back.  These things cover some basics that you probably know already.  However, unless you actually listen to this advice then you are not going to do yourself any good.

Use Subtle Contact Methods

You do not want to cut off all contact with her.  At the same time don’t be a stalker.  Please, don’t be a stalker.  Stalkers are scary and not someone anyone wants to have a relationship with.  You start being all obsessive and get that stalker label, you will forever be known as “that stalker guy”.  Just be subtle and restrain yourself.

Stay Away from Other Girls

Trying to get over your ex by using other girls will get you nowhere.  Your ex will see you as a player and that is a huge turnoff.  Better to stick to your buddies and let them help you through this break up.

Keep the Tears to Yourself

Women say they like a man that is willing to cry, but we don’t mean one that is a cry baby.  There is a time and place for tears and at her front door on your knees after a break up is not one of them.  If you must cry then do it alone.

Don’t Bad Talk Her

It may be very tempting to start running your mouth about how awful your ex is and how your break up was all her fault.  However, think about how she will feel when she hears what you have said.  Don’t fool yourself either.  She will hear what you have said and she will be livid about it.  Making her mad is no way to get her back.

Skip the Pressure

You cannot pressure your ex to get back with you. Don’t think intimidating her or making her feel sorry for you will get her back.

The bottom line is that you cannot make her want you back, but you can keep her from considering it.  Do yourself a favor and let time heal things.  Maybe then she will be ready to give it another try.