You have a suspicion that something is not right in your relationship.  Your girl has been acting strange and you are not sure why, but you know something is up.  It’s there in the back of your mind.  That one thought you don’t want to face.  Is your girlfriend cheating on you?

It is heartbreaking to think that she could be cheating, but you have to find out right now.  Letting it go will only hurt you more.  Catch that cheater right now and put an end to a relationship that is obviously going nowhere.

Watch Her

Your first step should just be to watch her.  See how she is acting and what has changed about her behavior.  Watch for things like private phone calls or mystery texts.  Does she seem to be busier than usually?  Is she canceling plans with you all of the sudden?  These may be signs that she is cheating.

Has She Changed Things She Says?

If she used to tell you all the time how much she loves you or used to talk about her feelings for you and now all of a sudden she doesn’t say these things, then this may be a sign.  She may no longer be having those feelings or at least having them for you.  When a girl suddenly stops saying ‘I love you’ it is almost always a good sign something is wrong.

Are Her Friends Acting Different

Most likely if she is cheating, her friends know.  If they suddenly start acting weird around you then take it as a sign.  Watching how they behave can actually be the easiest sign to spot.

No matter what signs may be coming your way, if you have a feeling something is wrong then chances are that it is.  You should talk with her about it.  Find out what is wrong and see if you can work through the problem.