You might be laughing at that question, but it seems some guys just don’t ever learn.  Instead of telling you what to do, I think you need to hear what not to do on a date.  I could talk until I’m blue in the face about what you can do to make a girl fall for you, but there are those guys who just keep making the same mistakes.  It is much easier for me to just tell you what to stop doing.

So, here it is.  The following list tells you all about the mistakes you have been making.  These mistakes are probably the reason you are reading this right now and not having lunch with a beautiful lady.  Trust me, though, once you get through reading this, you will be grateful that you did.

Stop making these mistakes:

• Don’t be all about me,me,me.  When you ramble on and on about yourself you will turn her off.  Seriously, being too into yourself is a big turn off for a woman.  She wants to know that there is room in your life for more than just you.  It is cool to love yourself, but she needs to know that you are capable of loving someone else, too.

• Don’t be a know it all.  Another turn off is a guy who thinks he knows everything.  Nobody knows everything.  I don’t care how well educated you are or how well traveled.  You do not know everything, so stop acting like you do.  She will find you arrogant and just plain annoying.

• Don’t act like you are a relationship expert.  Telling her you know what she is thinking or acting like you know everything there is to know about relationships will make her run.  You are not a relationship expert.  You do not know what she is thinking.  Just stop acting like you do.

• Keep your hands to yourself.  I know it can be difficult, after a few drinks, to keep your hands to yourself when you are really attracted to a woman.  You need to realize that she may not be as into you or as drunk.  Don’t start invading her personal space until she welcomes you into it.

• Don’t be rude.  Burping, being loud and showing off may work with your friends, but it won’t impress a woman.  You need to keep your manners in check.  Be a nice guy.  Women love nice guys.

There are plenty more things I could add to this list, but I think this covers the main things.  Sometimes guys try too hard and it ends up hurting you.  Just be yourself.  Relax and make her feel comfortable with you.  Follow her cues.  Take it slow and don’t do any of the above things.  Stop being that guy every girl avoids and start being the guy every girl wants to know.