It isn’t always easy to catch the attention of a woman you would like to get to know better.  The following are five steps to follow if you want to make a great first impression to make a woman want to get to know you better.

Step One:  Make good eye contact.

You have to look her in the eyes.  This tells her without the exchange of any words that you are interested in her.  A woman loves a man who can be direct and let her know right away that she interests him.  Making good eye contact is about catching her gaze and holding, but not being too obtrusive.  Look away often but always return to her gaze until you get that welcoming smile.

Step Two: Don’t buy her affection.

If you offer a drink then that is fine, but don’t expect anything in return but a thank you.  You cannot expect to get her attention through spending money on her.

Step Three: Ask her questions.

Let her tell you about her.  Ask her about herself.  Try  to learn about what she likes to do, who she is.  Take it all in.

Step Four: Really listen to her.

This follows step three.  Make sure you just don’t ask questions and then tune out.  Really listen to what she says.  Make sure you reply when appropriate.  Be a part of the conversation.

Step Five: Treat her like you want her to treat you.

This is pretty simple and straightforward.  You want her to treat you well, so do the same to her.  Make sure that you don’t do anything that you would not like to see her do.