If you find yourself having to convince your girl that you really do love her then something has gone wrong. You have obviously done something or been acting in a manner that has her thinking your feelings for her have cooled. Get your relationship back on track and convince her that you are truly in love with her by following these steps.
Don’t just sit there and listen as she talks. Really listing to her. Show her by making eye contact and focusing on what she is saying. Ask questions or make comments. Interact with her during a conversation. Let her know what she says is important to you.
Stop being a fool.
Stop acting like you cannot be emotional or romantic because it will damage your image. Show her you love her by acting like you love her. Acting all hard and tough pushes her away and makes you seem distant. Sometimes it is okay to be cuddly and sweet.
Find out why she feels this way.
Ask her why she doesn’t believe that you love her. Avoid the urge to get defensive. You need to make sure that you are open to her feelings. Let her speak her mind and make sure that you address them in a manner that makes her feel secure at the end.
Explain why you love her.
If you really do love her as much as you say you do then you should be able to explain why you love her. Tell her everything that makes you love her. Write it down if you have trouble putting things into words. You can also play her a song that captures how you feel. Songwriters have a way of putting emotions into words that the average guy just cannot do.
Show her you love her everyday.
Don’t take love for granted. Just because you told her that you love her doesn’t mean the end. She knows, but she needs reminders. Keep doing loving things. Keep showing her in little ways how much you love her. Keep showing your love and you will keep the love alive.
A Few Tips:
- Don’t break down. If you get all upset then it will not help you at all. Keep your cool, but be willing to be vulnerable.
- Don’t make promises that you cannot keep. If you promise her the world then give it to her. Broken promises are proof that your love doesn’t run as deep as you say it does. A broken promise to a woman shows her that you don’t really care about her feelings and that she is not important enough to you that keeping your promise is a priority.
- It may take time, so be patient. If your actions in the past have been contradictory to what you are saying now then she will need time. You will have to prove yourself to her and prove that you are truly in love for real.