Should You Be Jealous of Her Guy Friends?

The green eyed monster has been the downfall of many relationships.  It is hard to deal with sometimes.  For example, what do you do when your girlfriend has guy friends?  You think to yourself that you know how guys are and they cannot possible resist her charms.  They all want to be with her.  There you go – jealous much?

Come To Grip With Your Jealousy

If you want this relationship to work out you have to come to grips with why you are feeling this way.  You cannot blame those guys.  For all you know they really are innocent in their feelings for her.  Look at the situation.

How do you react when she talks to one of them or when she is around one of them?  Do you get all possessive and clingy?  This tells her that you don’t like her friendship with this guy and kind of forces her into secretive behavior.  She will start hiding her contact with her guy friends because she doesn’t want you to get jealous and upset.  In her mind she is protecting you.

What’s going on in your mind?  You probably see the secretive behavior as suspicious.  This really gets you going, doesn’t it?

Stop!  Just for a minute stop and look at reality.

Does your girlfriend love you?  Has she done anything else that would make you think she is unhappy being with you?  If not, then chill out.  You need to focus on your relationship with her.  Make sure it is solid.

When you can feel secure in your relationship you won’t feel jealous.  So, it all comes down to the fact that if you feel jealous then your relationship is not strong and needs some work.  Stop worrying about her guy friends and start building your relationship.  That will keep the green eyed monster at bay and make you feel so much better.

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