French kissing is the most intimate form of kissing there is.  Mastering a French kiss is not easy, though.  There are so many ways for it to go wrong.  Too often, French kisses end up sloppy and are anything but the intimate, loving kiss they are meant to be.

Prepare For It

Prepare yourself for the kiss.  This is a kiss that involves your whole mouth so make sure it is clean.  Brush, floss and use mouth wash.  Pop a mint just to be sure.  Nothing ruins a good French kiss like bad breath or lingering garlic from your Italian dinner.

As with any kiss, make sure that the moment is right.  Trying to force a French kiss will just result in disaster.  You have to feel the moment.  She has to give you cues that the time is right.

Slow is Hot

Take it slow.  Once you get the cue, move in slowly. Maintain physical contact.  Pull her slowly to you and start with a simple closed mouth kiss.  Let it build naturally to a full French kiss.  Be sure to hold her during the kiss.  This is a really intense physical moment that require closeness.

Be gentle and avoid aggressive movements.  Don’t explore her teeth or gag her.  Be smooth and follow her movements.  Focus on lip contact and let the rest just flow naturally.  You may be surprised at how easy it turns out to be.

French kissing should be something you both want.  If you go in for the kiss but her lips are sealed up as tight as Fort Knox then don’t push further.  Be happy with a simple kiss and give it a try next time.  After all if she gives you a nice kiss, there are sure to be more to come and any one of those could be the right time for a French kiss.