“I love you” is a phrase that is very meaningful.  It is something that you should never say to a woman unless you really mean it.  In a relationship, you have to be aware that she is going to put a lot of weight into your words, especially if you say those three little words.

Throwing It Around

Even if you are the type of guy who is always telling everyone that you love them, it is not the same when you say it to a woman.  Simply put.  You can tell your friends, your family, whoever, that you love them, but don’t tell a woman if you do not mean it.

You cannot throw the phrase “I love you” around with a woman who may not really know what your true feelings are.  She is probably already confused about how you really feel.  She may already be questioning if you do have deep feelings.  Once you say “I love you”, you have taken a step forward and there is no going back without someone getting hurt.

How She Feels

When you say “I love you”, she may react in different ways.  Some women will take it to heart and be overly excited.  She may say it back.  This woman believes that you really mean.  If you suddenly take it back because you didn’t mean it then you will break her heart.

Other women may be scared off.  If you say it early in a relationship, she may get the wrong idea about you.  She may start to think that you are getting too serious too fast.  This type of woman may actually leave and end the relationship.

As you can see, saying “I love you” when you don’t mean it has consequences.  You need to be careful with these three words.  They are not something you just say.  Always say “I love you” with meaning.