Approaching women is not easy.  You get all nervous and it can be a challenge.  You know you need to be confident and that you need to respect her.  So, why is approaching a woman still so hard?  Perhaps you are making some of the top mistakes.

Men often feel they have to follow rules when it comes to approaching women.  The only real rules are that you have to use common sense.  Too often focusing on these so-called rules will leave you standing alone at the end of the night.

Here are three mistakes that men make all too often when approaching women.  Simply stated – read them and don’t do them.

Mistake #1: Not Taking the Lead

Men think all women want to be in charge and they want their independence.  While this may be true in many aspects, most women still like a man to take the lead when it comes to dating.  So, don’t play a fool and refuse to make any decisions.  Take control and show her a good time.

Mistake #2: Thinking You Are Not Good Enough

Confidence is key.  I said it already.  If you start out by thinking a woman is too beautiful or too good for you then you will appear weak and unconfident.  Have faith in yourself.  You don’t have to have the body like David Beckham to get a girl.  Just go for it.

Mistake #3: Wasting Your Time

If you can tell a woman is not interested then go elsewhere.  Don’t spend all night trying to get the attention of a woman who is just not feeling you.  Many men make this mistake. They see a girl they think is hot and they focus on her all night, but she is not interested, so they end up going home alone.  Try your hand at someone who is really interested and you may end up meeting someone great.