Sometimes you may not think when you speak.  It is a guy thing.  However, being a man is no excuse for saying things that turn women off.  If you want to keep chasing women away then keep on talking without thinking.  If you would like to be able to date and actually one day find a woman to be with then you need to learn how to say the right things.

You may say things because you don’t know what to say or maybe you are just saying whatever pops to your head.  Regardless, there are some things that you say to women that are an instant turn-off.

The following are three things that you should never say to a woman.  These things are a bit offensive and very annoying to women.  It doesn’t matter who the woman is, what she looks like or how well you know her – these three things are things you should never say.

Number One: Any Comment About Weight

It is best to avoid talking about weight at all.  Don’t even try a compliment.  Saying something like ‘you look like you’ve lost weight’ may seem like a nice thing to you, but what she hears is that you think she needed to lose weight or that she was fat before.  It is very easy to get into trouble even with an innocent weight comment, so just avoid the subject.

Number Two: Telling Her She Talks Too Much

Women like to talk. Men don’t like to talk quite so much.  That is how it is.  Despite what you may think, women know we talk too much.  We don’t need you to tell us.  When you say ‘you talk too much’ we get self conscious and we may clam up.  That is a real mood killer.  So, just sit back, listen, and stay quiet.

Number Three: Don’t Be Too Upfront About Intimacy

Never, ever say ‘let’s make out already’.  That will turn her off quick.  She wants to be romanced.  Don’t be pushy.  If you seriously want to make out then take the lead, but keep your comments to yourself.  If you can’t wait a few minutes then maybe you need to get a handle on your hormones.