Should You Take Her To a Restaurant to Propose?

Frankly, I find the restaurant proposal a bit tired and a bit boring these days. I mean, it has been so overused. But the reason I would not like to be proposed to at a restaurant has to do with a different matter: pressure.

Restaurant Proposal Has Lots Of Pressure

Let’s face it; there is a lot of pressure associated with a marriage proposal, you proposing and not knowing one hundred percent if she will say yes. And when you propose in a restaurant, people notice and usually, you involve the restaurant staff. So if she says no, wow, well, it’s almost like being said no on TV, ok, very close. You get the point.

Well you see, a big part of that pressure gets to her. And let’s be honest here; the girl who says “no” or “I’d like to think it over” to a marriage proposal is seen as a, well, I won’t use the word but you know it. If you are a nice girl, you don’t want to be seen that way so what a pressure!

How About A More Intimate Setting?

Don’t assume that your girlfriend will say yes to your marriage proposal. There are many reasons why she might need to think it over and is unable to give you a response right away. So here’s my prefer version of things; ask her first in private, where there’s only the two of you and she is not afraid to be totally honest with you and share her true feelings, I mean fears.

It also gives you a chance to win her over and help her make the leap, especially if your proposal is a total surprise for her. Don’t assume that if she hesitates it doesn’t mean she loves you. Frankly, it’s only in the movies that people are always ready to say yes to a proposal. Even when you really want it, it is such a big deal you can’t help but ponder. It takes a while to get used to the idea.

Once she has agreed, now you can really surprise her with post-proposal dinner at the restaurant, with the staff involve and the whole nine yard. You can even call it a surprise engagement party, where you get to do the big romantic gesture. That’s a better way to cement the deal. No pressure!

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