What Is a Man Really Saying When He Says He Will Call

It is the eternal question – What does a guy mean when he says he will call?  Women know he doesn’t always mean he will call.  We are not stupid.  Men have been saying, “I will call” for centuries, maybe even from the dawn of time.  It has become a regular phrase to them, like see you later or nice talking with you

I Will Call You As In Goodbye

So why do men say it? Well, like I just said, in many cases it has simply just become something they say.  They say it so much that they begin using it instead of goodbye.  Usually you can spot when this applies because the guy just causally throws it out and if you were not listening, you could have easily mistaken it for a goodbye.

For some people it is just something they say to keep awkwardness at bay.  Maybe they do not know if they will call, but they feel like they have to say it or else you may freak out or something just as scary.  They use it like a defense mechanism.  When a guy says he will call you with halfhearted effort or as a way to end the conversation then this is probably why he is doing it.

He Will Call If He Says When

Lastly, some men really do mean they will call you.  However, a guy saying it in this way will usually make some effort to expand upon it.  Like he will say that he will call you in a couple days or he will give you a call on your lunch break on Monday.  When he gives details it is a good sign that he might actually pick up the phone and dial your digits.

Most of the time you have to realize that hearing a guy say he will call you is not an actual commitment that he is going to call.  Take it as it is.  It is just something guys say.  Don’t get your hopes up and don’t sit by the phone vigilantly.  Honestly, if he calls you will either answer it or get a message and then you can call him back.  If he doesn’t call then you just know that is a guy that wasn’t worth your time anyway.

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