A first date is always a bit awkward.  It is not odd to be nervous.  Everyone has some fear of a first date.  After all, this is the first impression you get to make and you want it to be a good one.  You are going out with him because he is someone that you are interested in.  You want this first date to lead to a second date.

How do you do this?  Well, you start by avoiding these top five mistakes that will kill your first date:

Mistake #1: Dressing wrong.

It is a good idea to ask him what is planned for the date.  You don’t want to show up to the bowling alley wearing an evening dress.  Make sure to get an idea ahead of time.  If you have doubts, simply wear something that could be casual or dressy.  Do you best to find out what you should wear.

Mistake #2: Not allowing time for conversation.

If you are going somewhere with a group or somewhere that is crowded, it is important that you really try to get one on one time with him.  You want him to remember you, not just have fun.  You must steal some time to really talk with him so you can get to know each other.

Mistake #3: Overdoing anything.

Your nerves may be crazy, but that doesn’t mean that you should act out of control.  Don’t try to be too much fun by being too loud and obnoxious.  Don’t try to be too sexy by dressing like a slut.  Be yourself and don’t be thinking about what you can do to impress.

Mistake #4: Saying too much.

A common mistake is that women tend to be too open.  Talking is great, but be careful about what you say.  You don’t want to be too open.  Save something for the second date.  Make sure that you avoid awkward topics like past relationships and health issues.

Mistake #5: Having a cell that is constantly ringing.

Turn your cell off.  Nothing is more annoying than having your conversation interrupted over and over by a ringing cell phone. It is simply best to just turn it off for the whole duration of the date.

These five mistakes can really kill your first date.   There are other mistakes you can make, like drinking too much or showing up late, but these five mistakes are truly going to make your first date go horrible.  If you really like this guy, you should put your best foot forward.  It is important that you be yourself and that you do not put on a false front.

Your first date can be amazing.  All you have to do is avoid these mistakes.  You have to focus on having fun and focus on him.  Let yourself have a good time and don’t be too self-conscious.  At the end of the night, you will both be looking forward to date number two.