Flirting is an art.  As a woman you really can take control of things when you master flirting techniques.  Start  by making yourself feel flirty.  When you look good and you are self confident, that is a great start.  Confidence is the key to catching his attention, which you need to do to be able to flirt.

Attitude

You also need the right attitude.  Flirting is playful and fun.  Drop the serious facade and let yourself just relish in the connection you are making.  Make sure your body is not giving off the wrong signals.  Smile and make eye contact.  Laugh a little and loosen up.

When you really want to take your flirting up a notch, touch him.  Just reach out and playfully touch his arm.  If you feel bold then grab his hand or touch his face.  Just keep it light and don’t linger.

Compliment

To really reel a man in all you need to do is throw a compliment his way.  Guys love to know how great they are.  Tell him he’s amazing and he is putty in your hands.  Make sure you are being real, though.  Fake compliments fall flat.

Guys also like to talk about themselves.  Let him tell you about how amazing he is at football or how he graduated top of his class from business school. Listen and stay attentive.  Keep making eye contact, laugh at appropriate times and smile a lot.  Be sincere.  Let him know you are listening by asking questions or making comments.

Flirting should be fun.  It should be engaging and it should make you both feel good.  If he’s into you then it should just naturally flow.  It should be easy.  If he is not into you, then move on to the next guy.  There are plenty of guys who will love to flirt with you, so don’t waste your time on guys who don’t want to flirt.