Many women go about attracting men the wrong way.   Being sexy is not the only way to attract a man and it certainly is not the best way to attract a guy when you want a meaningful relationship.  Making yourself irresistible to men is something most women have to learn.  We all can’t be lucky enough to have that natural charisma that makes guys fall at our feet, but we can work our way to it.

You have to understand what a man wants

Men want a woman who:

• they can love

• they can cherish

• they can respect

• will love, cherish and respect them

• is confident and secure in who she is

• makes him feel amazing and wanted

In order to make yourself irresistible to men you have to give him what he wants.  You need to be approachable so he can get to know you.  You need to be open and warm, not distant and cold.  Make sure you smile a lot and that you exude happiness.  Make sure your attitude is contagious.  By that I mean, make sure that you make people around you feel happy and confident.

Love Yourself

Do what you need to do to feel amazing about yourself.  You need to love yourself so you can have that confidence that radiates.  Confidence is key.  You have to be secure in who you are.

Be elegant.  Always keep your composure.  Don’t be afraid to show your intelligence.  Be charming and graceful.  All these things will only accentuate your confidence and make people want to be around you.

Men Want Respect

Treat men with respect.  Make them feel that you really care about them and value them.  Don’t be afraid to throw in some sexual power here.  Let him see that side of you that’s uninhibited, but keep it under control.

You want to make sure that you are giving off clear signals that you are someone interesting and fun to be around.  This is what attracts guys.  You may not make a connection with every guy you attract, but you should have no trouble attracting them if you master being a confident, strong and secure woman.