We’ve all had that guy friend who we really can’t help but like at a deeper level.  Once we realize our feelings we start to freak out a bit because we don’t know how he feels and we are not sure if the opportunity has past for us to be more than friends.  We’ve all been there.  I’ve been there.  I figured it would just be easier if he would ask me out.  Then I would know how he felt for sure.

Let Your Guy Friend Know Your Feelings

Of course, getting him to ask me out was not simple.  Getting any guy to ask you out is not simple and especially when he is just a friend and has been that for quite a while.  Eventually, though, I got him to ask me out.  I know.  You want to know how I did it.  Let me give you some tips to help you to get your guy friend to ask you out.

Start by letting him know that your feelings have changed.  If you are not direct, like most of us, then you have to do this with actions and body language.  Remember that guys are not good with subtle, though.  Try to be clear that you are really interested in him in a while new way.

Watch Out For His Actions

While doing your little flirty act you should watch closely to how he responds.  You want to try to figure out if he feels the same way about you.  Is he showing signs of liking your new attitude or is he backing off?  Try to figure out where he stands.

If you have gotten your feelings across and he has shown you he is interested, then all you need to do is set the stage.  Get time alone so he can ask you out.  Start dropping hints about dates and see if he bites.  Chances are that he will ask you out.

If he doesn’t take the hints, though, you may have to do the work yourself.  If all else fails then just ask him out.  The worse that could happen is he says no.