How To Go From Buddy Friend to Girlfriend

Nothing is more frustrating then being stuck in the friend zone.  Being his buddy often leads to you wanting more.  When you want more than friendship what can you do.  The following will help walk you through the transition from buddy to girlfriend.

Take Things Out in the World

You need to take things out in public.  Start doing things together without it ending up in the bedroom.  You can even just try hanging out without getting physical.  This helps you to distance yourself from that buddy image and make him see you as more.


Conversation is important.  Get to know about him.  Let him know about you.  Have meaningful conversations about your dreams and goals.  This helps build a mental attraction.

Meet His Friends

Try to meet his friends.  This will get you into his inner circle and help you to see if he really likes you.  If he is cool about you meeting his friends then it shows he does like you on some level.

Don’t Booty Call Him

Resist the urge to call him and make it all about sex.  You can call, but call sometimes to just talk.  If you are doing the booty call then he won’t likely ever take you serious as something other than his buddy.

Tell Him How You Feel

Sometimes you just have to tell him straight out that you want to be more than buddies.  He may say no, but he also could say yes.  You will never know if you just don’t put it out there and tell him how you feel.

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