Love is so confusing.  It is no wonder that when you meet a great guy and you have been seeing each other for quite some time, you still have to wonder if you are really in love with him.  Some love is easy to define.  You know you love your mom and you love your friends, but romantic love is not always so easy.  It can take some very serious consideration about your feelings to discover if you are in really in love.

Clarify Love

Love is personal.  You have to look inside yourself and find out what love means to you.  Try writing down everything you think about love.  Find a way to identify what it means to you.  Write your own definition.

Know What Love is Not

When defining love, you also need to define what is not love.  You need to figure out the difference between love and lust.  Figure out where friendship type love turns into romantic love.  Further define love based on these things.

Find Out More About Love

You should read others opinions on love.  Find various definitions.  See how other people define love.  Look for things that challenge your definition.  Try to expand your mind about love.  Bring together everything you have learned about love and use this information to help you come up with your final and complete definition of love.

Define your Relationship

Now that you have defined love for yourself in your terms, you can look at your relationship.  Look at him and ask yourself again if you are really in love with him.  Do your feelings fit into the scope of your definition?  If so, then I think you can safely say that you are really in love.