If you were to poll men about the number one quality they value most about women, what do you think they would say?  If you think back on prior relationships, what is one thing that seems resounding?  What is one thing that the online dating profiles of men seem to always request in a woman?

The answer to all these questions is authenticity.  Men just want you to stop playing games and keep it real.  They don’t want to be caught up in some big emotional mess that was created out of your need for drama.  They just want to know the real you.

Simple Minds

Men have fairly simple minds.  They are not biologically as emotional as we are.  They like to look at facts and they like to strip things down to their basic parts.  This helps them understand things.  In order for a man to understand you, he has to know the real you.

He can never know the real you if you are playing games and putting up a false front.  He won’t even want to take the time to figure you out.  You have to give him the real you right away.

Being Authentic

You should really not need guidance on being real.  However, it is common with women to try to hide their real self.  Whether it is self-consciousness or just shyness, women like to put on a front.  In order to attract a man, though, you have to be confident.  You need to be the real you.

Try letting your guard down.  Don’t make everything about emotions.  Be who you are.  When you are real and authentic, you will find a man that accepts you for who you are.  You will find a true love.