It can be very easy to think that no matter what you do in bed, your man will love it.  That may be true – guys aren’t picky – as long they are getting bedroom action, they are generally happy.  However, when you are in a long term relationship, things can get stale and that can leave him wishing for more.  Boredom breeds trouble, so keep him happy by providing him with things he craves, but is too afraid to ask for.

Love it And Go For It

Your man wants enthusiasm.  I am not talking about becoming a peppy bedroom cheerleader.  He seriously wants to know you are into this.  Be aggressive.  Make your intentions more obvious.  Tell him in no uncertain terms what you want and then go for it.  He will love it.

Your man also wants you to switch it up every now and then.  You get in a groove and fall into certain patterns because it works, but it is a bore.  The bedroom is the perfect place to try new things and let loose.  So, change things up.  Come out of that rut with some serious passion.

Be A Bad Girl

Spice.  One word, one thing, that will drive him crazy.  Add spice.  Add adventure.  Every man craves a bad girl, so indulge him.  Give him that bad girl that he secretly desires.

You always hear about people who are selfish in bed.  Make sure there is equal give and take.  Don’t let him do all the giving.  Take the reins and give a little, too.  Be generous and he will be thankful.

Sometimes women fall into a role of seeing the sexual side of their relationship as a duty.  When this happens you lose all authenticity.  Your man starts to see that you would probably rather be anywhere but with him in that moment.  That is a total mood killer.  Start being more authentic.  Really want to be with him and show him that is the only place you want to be.  Men get turned on just by knowing you are into it.